Being jealous just shows how insecure you are

A man stays in love with a women when they feel they are completely understood and loved regardless. when he feels he can communicate with you like no-one else, you become irreplaceable to him. With her lover she feels listened to, understood, cared about in a way that usually isn't happening in her marriage.

Car smash 29th Nov 1988 9.45pm

anna arrived 27th Nov 1988 9pm

court case mrs wilson 16 nov 1988

Henry left 26th wed oct 88

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You approve of yourself

No duty to make parents happy, their responsible

no reason to do what they want

loneliness is a feeling

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15 mins per week

1. who am I

2. what am I

3. where am I going

4. do you have adequate philosophy to life

5. spiritual life

6. enough time with family

7. undivided attention with family

8. greatest source of pleasure

9. greatest fear

10. feel about work

11. learn more

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Motivation

- use trial and success learning

- use a realistic definition of success

- be a success copy cat

- show me

- look at yourself

- talk yourself into trying

- don't think its a catastrophe when things go wrong

- use your imagination

- learn to relax both mentally and physically

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I understand you need this job done, but i really don't think I'm the person who should do it.

I'm a bit nervous about this but I would really like to get to know you.

I seek romance in my life.

3/12/85 height 180cm weight 88 kg age 23

12/5/88                                   96kg  age 26

13/2/01 height 182 weight 100.7 kg

chris 1m height 19.9 kg

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